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Five Girls Orphaned as a result of
Gender-
Based
Violence
My name is Magaret. I am a widow, and
I take care of four children that were orphaned in a
fatal
fight between their parents. Sharon, Phillipa, Rose,
Bridget
and Diana aged 8, 6.5, 4, 3.5 and 11 months were born
into a
family where the parents constantly fought. Their father
was
my brother. One fateful morning, the fight between my
brother and his wife aggravated to the point of using
pangas. In so much anger, my brother slit his wife’s
throat.
As soon as he realized what he had done, he took poison
to
end his life. The couple lay dead beside each other on
the
ground, and neighbors gathered at the scene all day
long.
Security personnel also came to the scene to identify
the
bodies and write reports. The event left everybody in
shock,
motionless. The couple was buried that same day.
Amidst all these events, the
children quietly sat still
in
their bedroom, trembling with fear. Later that evening,
I
came to the scene in pain and tears after hearing the
sad
news. My brother and his wife were dead so I stayed with
them for the night to comfort them. The next morning, I
explained to the children what had happened and how they
had
to start a new life with me. I had made up my mind to be
their guardian although I was very poor and had little
to
share. I carried the youngest on my back and held the
two
younger children each with one hand, while the two older
were by my side. We all headed to my house.
Unfortunately,
the youngest child, Diana, died a few days later because
she
had no breast milk to feed on. I took the four orphans
in
with open arms and was ready to look after them despite
her
lack of resources. I resorted to planting some crops so
that
they could have food to eat. I also took advantage of my
friendships with my neighbors by seeking help, food and
other necessities from them. It was not an easy journey
but
I pulled through.
A year later, an elder in the
community named Catherine
approached me and sought permission to take care of all
of
the children's education because Catherine's dream had
always been to help the needy. I fell on my knees and
cried
with joy and gladness. I wrapped my arms around
Catherine’s
legs as I cried, "
thank you!". From that moment on, the children were
clothed, and educated in very good schools. They got
fair grades throughout primary and are now attending
secondary level with fair grades.
I remain grateful for the
opportunity of education that
was
given to all the four children. I keep on encouraging
them
to work hard and behave well. Catherine is still doing a
great job of paying their school fees and hopes they
complete their education successfully. The adolescents
hope
for a bright future and success in their careers.
Another source of constant worry
and anxiety is the fate
of
her
mentally impaired son, who needs extra attention to
navigate
the
daily tasks of the day. Kato Vincent obtained this
impairment as
a result of the poor posture of the twins in the womb
during
pregnancy. While his twin sister Babirye Immaculate has
progressed to primary two, Kato’s education journey is
still
hampered by his mental impairment. Seeing her toddler
son in
a
state of helplessness adds to the already heavy
emotional
burden
she has to carry.
My name is Magaret. I am a widow, and I take care of four children that were orphaned in a fatal fight between their parents. Sharon, Phillipa, Rose, Bridget and Diana aged 8, 6.5, 4, 3.5 and 11 months were born into a family where the parents constantly fought. Their father was my brother. One fateful morning, the fight between my brother and his wife aggravated to the point of using pangas. In so much anger, my brother slit his wife’s throat. As soon as he realized what he had done, he took poison to end his life. The couple lay dead beside each other on the ground, and neighbors gathered at the scene all day long. Security personnel also came to the scene to identify the bodies and write reports. The event left everybody in shock, motionless. The couple was buried that same day.
Amidst all these events, the children quietly sat still in their bedroom, trembling with fear. Later that evening, I came to the scene in pain and tears after hearing the sad news. My brother and his wife were dead so I stayed with them for the night to comfort them. The next morning, I explained to the children what had happened and how they had to start a new life with me. I had made up my mind to be their guardian although I was very poor and had little to share. I carried the youngest on my back and held the two younger children each with one hand, while the two older were by my side. We all headed to my house. Unfortunately, the youngest child, Diana, died a few days later because she had no breast milk to feed on. I took the four orphans in with open arms and was ready to look after them despite her lack of resources. I resorted to planting some crops so that they could have food to eat. I also took advantage of my friendships with my neighbors by seeking help, food and other necessities from them. It was not an easy journey but I pulled through.
A year later, an elder in the community named Catherine approached me and sought permission to take care of all of the children's education because Catherine's dream had always been to help the needy. I fell on my knees and cried with joy and gladness. I wrapped my arms around Catherine’s legs as I cried, " thank you!". From that moment on, the children were clothed, and educated in very good schools. They got fair grades throughout primary and are now attending secondary level with fair grades.
I remain grateful for the opportunity of education that was given to all the four children. I keep on encouraging them to work hard and behave well. Catherine is still doing a great job of paying their school fees and hopes they complete their education successfully. The adolescents hope for a bright future and success in their careers.
Another source of constant worry and anxiety is the fate of her mentally impaired son, who needs extra attention to navigate the daily tasks of the day. Kato Vincent obtained this impairment as a result of the poor posture of the twins in the womb during pregnancy. While his twin sister Babirye Immaculate has progressed to primary two, Kato’s education journey is still hampered by his mental impairment. Seeing her toddler son in a state of helplessness adds to the already heavy emotional burden she has to carry.